My Fraternity hosted several out of state visitors that night, most of which were dressed in the standard Khaki/Gray Pants with Navy Blazer and conservative necktie. I was glad to keep things conservative, but still stand out a bit. This particular Tweed Sport Coat, which I will leave unnamed in this post, will be featured in an upcoming post all about thrifting. If interested in the necktie, here’s a link to buy your own: 100% Silk Woven Red and Black Striped Tie.
Back to school in the middle of the week. Nothing much to say here, except that my brown socks finally came in. I’ve got some pretty long feet so I usually have to order my socks. The particular pair I’m wearing here are: Gold Toe Men’s Microfiber Fashion 3 Pack,Khaki/Sahara/Brown,10-13 (with the exception that I’m actually wearing the 12-16 size)
An awesome Valentine’s Day with my wife. My best friend got us tickets to the Valentine’s Day Flogging Molly concert at the Marathon Music Works in Nashville, TN. We had a blast. Normally I would be in clothing a little more beer spill resistant, but being Valentine’s Day we went to dinner before hitting the show.
February 15th – February 17th
This might be a good time to mention that I broke one of my toes on the 11th. So, Friday through Sunday I took the weekend to relax and catch up on homework. Being who I am though, I was very ready to set the standards high in class on Monday.
After a three day weekend of relaxed dressing, I was very ready to step things up a notch. Monday has become the day I wear a necktie to college. I’m hoping to continue the trend throughout the semester. It was also a very cold and rainy night, so I was very appreciative of all the layers.
Stay with me for another 10 days as we wrap up the month of February. If this is the first part you’ve read, go back and read them all!
Use the second picture of my leg as a proper indication of the jacket’s color. I took these pictures after dark inside without the aid of natural light. The particular occasion was a recognition dinner at my Fraternity. The atmosphere called for a suit, but did not demand a sense of business. Hence, I made some subtle changes to the standard wearing of a gray business suit to fit with a more social occasion.
Burgundy shoes (with matching belt) instead of black.
A white shirt instead of the usual blue or subtle pattern.
A floral tie instead of a more conservative stripe or solid pattern.
Understanding the impression that small differences can make such as a floral tie versus a conservative stripe will cause you to stand out in a very positive way. The biggest impact you will see is in job interviews or work presentations. Presenting yourself in a manner that is well put together can leave a lasting impression on the people you need to impress.
Heading out to dinner with a friend. For the casual environment, it really is hard to go wrong with Khaki Chinos.
A Sunday of studying and test taking with some good food and good television later that night.
Monday night classes. However, the desired affect was attained. Upon entering the college I made a great impression on the Director of IT. For all I know I could be interviewing with him in just a few months time for a job at the college. Keeping yourself dressed at a level above the rest can pay off unexpectedly.
Another warm day in Tennessee. The V-neck undershirt peaking out is a matter out for debate. Initial feelings are that I’ve lost too much weight for this shirt. The collar is very open now and the alternative is going to be wearing it without an undershirt. The versatility of a good set of Cords (Corduroy Pants) should not be underestimated. They go from casual to sport to business casual effortlessly. The traditional colors for them are the more earthy tan or chocolate brown. I don’t feel that the purpose and scope of this specific series is going to allow me to touch on “sport” dress with the detail it deserves. A common misconception is that sport refers to golfing clothes. It does, but it’s so much more than that. If you enjoy shooting sporting clays, that’s a sport too. Sporting dress can include clothes that are lightweight and allow a full range of motion (such as would be used for golf) or clothes that are rugged and snag resistant (such as would be used for Upland Hunting). What to wear for these sports and occasions is important and deserving their own articles.
Thursday turned out to be another intense study day for me. Got to love the comic book sweatshirt. It keeps my geek/nerd credit high.
Today wraps up the first week of February and the first week of the “What Am I Wearing?” series. Going forward this series will be updated biweekly on Mondays and Thursdays. Updating twice a week is going to give me the opportunity to post the new pics and start to point out trends and nitpick myself for your benefit. Topics will include socks, shoe styles, and pant choices.
For some context, this was Super Bowl Sunday. The wife and I went out to the grocery store for a few items. The tie went on because I wasn’t satisfied with the way the collar looked unbuttoned on this particular shirt. The navy cardigan above is 100% Wool and probably the warmest article of clothing I own. I reserve it for the coldest days. It looks great, keeps me warm, and replaces a much heavier jacket.
Mondays are days that I get to enjoy college campus life. I have never seen a shirt so loud with such muted colors. This shirt may have a Western-Inspired plaid going on, it’s cut and fit is more business casual. However, it’s pattern would make me squeamish to wear it in a true business casual setting. In a true business casual setting, you should wear a shirt that you could wear a tie with. Business casual doesn’t necessarily mean you aren’t wearing a tie. Food for thought.
An unusual Tuesday for me today. Nothing social on the calendar, leaving me to hit the books, do some homework, and try out a new recipe for Manicotti. Those brown leather slip on shoes I paid around $10.00 for and are my standard mulling around the house shoe on relaxed days. Also, my go to shoe for dog walking.
What to wear? What am I specifically wearing? Questions that I’m sure people ask me in their minds when they remark how well put together I am during the two days of the week they happen to see me. I’m honestly not sure if people think I go home and throw on busted jeans and a torn t-shirt or if I don a full tuxedo. This series, going forward, will be mostly pictures. Every day I’ll snap a picture or two of myself and post them here. For context, I’ll also note where I’m going or where I’ve been. The hope is that I can effectively demonstrate what to wear and when.
Let’s get started:
Yesterday, Friday, for me was a homework day. So I got very comfortable and hit the books.
Today I had a monthly breakfast, with a committee meeting following, with my Fraternity. Still casual, but not t-shirt and jeans.
Today’s post illustrates that there are many forms of casual. From t-shirt and work pants, to a button-down shirt and corduroys. Let’s not forget business casual! Setting plays a large part of knowing how to dress. If you’re unfamiliar with the setting, always dress at the upper end of the spectrum. For example, if a corporate funded dinner says “business casual”, I would suggest slacks, sport coat, and tie if it’s your first time in that specific setting.
I may include brand descriptions in the future (and subsequently links to where items could be purchased), but the intent of these articles are not to promote any specific brands. With that said, there are certain clothing items that should last you many years, so be selective with regard to quality.
A list of the top five dos and don’ts of men’s fashion. This list is comprised of tips for a more timeless and less trendy look. It is almost every gentleman’s opinion that a wardrobe should consist of more timeless pieces.
Neckties, generally, should be a darker color than the shirt they are paired with. Let me add that there will never be an occasion where a white necktie will be appropriate, ever. In the world of men’s fashion, “white tie” refers to a bow tie, not a necktie.
For a more timeless look, attempt to bring a color from the rest of your outfit into your tie. For example, a Red/Navy Honor Stripe tie with a navy suit. Don’t think that you need a necktie of every color in the rainbow. Instead, you will find yourself only wearing three or four different colors, but with many different variations of that color, i.e. style, material, hue, etc.
The one thing every man needs to understand about men’s fashion is just how important shoes are. You can go from business to business casual or business casual to casual by your shoes alone. Shoes are extremely important for a gentleman’s wardrobe. Don’t buy shoes in varying colors. Black Oxfords are a great start to your shoe collection. They most effortlessly match suits in navy, gray, and of course black. After the black Oxfords, I would recommend brown Oxfords. There are so many shades of brown ranging from colors labeled tan, tobacco, or for a more reddish variation, burgundy. Make sure to get a belt that matches, which can be tricky, but a large shop will specifically have belts to match any color of shoe they have. Brown Oxfords will match suits in navy and and, if your eye is sharp, gray.
If you don’t own a suit yet, don’t go out purchase a black suit. Black looks too contrasting during the daytime. It’s a color generally reserved for evening or night. Navy or gray should be your first option. I would recommend navy due to it’s versatility. It can be worn morning, afternoon, evening, or night. It has the option of matching black or brown shoes, and a lot of neckties match best with it. Two piece or three piece? That’s the question being asked nowadays. Two piece, jacket and pants, may be a safer bet, but the three piece, added vest or waistcoat, is about as dapper as you can get. I would say it varies greatly on the occasion, as well as your body type and comfort level. This may be a question best answered between you and your tailor or retailer.
Light blue, white, and cream should be your first choices on color. Avoid black or very dark solid colored shirts. These are left for the trendy folks. The black shirt from the bad necktie example above is from my personal wardrobe. I have only one tie in my collection that I feel properly matches it, pictured below. These darker shirts are honestly best left to denim pants, aka jeans. Patterns such as windowpane are excellent, but can be hard to find at large retailers who lean toward the trendy side of men’s fashion instead of timeless looks. Button down collars are best left for the on-the-go businessman. Someone who is more often seen in motion than posing for a photograph. They’re considered sporty. To best accentuate neckties, and especially bow ties, a nice spread collar shirt is the way to go.
Patterns such as windowpane are excellent, but can be hard to find at large retailers who lean toward the trendy side of men’s fashion instead of timeless looks. Button down collars are best left for the on-the-go businessman. Someone who is more often seen in motion than posing for a photograph. Button downs are considered more sporty and less dressy. To best accentuate neckties, and especially bow ties, a nice spread collar shirt is the way to go. It will reveal more of your knot on a necktie.
Pants in men’s fashion is not an easy topic. If you’re buying pants, it’s assumed you have a sport coat, or blazer. I would recommend the classic navy blazer, which would pair with pants that are gray, either solid or patterned, or a lighter khaki variation. If you opt for a tweed sport coat, equally timeless, pants will completely depend on the color. Tweed comes in grays, browns, and greens most commonly. Here’s the easiest way to match up a pair of pants. With the exception of patterned brown tweeds, which will have other colors dispersed in the pattern, do not pair a similar color, or similarly dark or light, pant with the blazer. Some patterned brown tweed blazers pair perfect with brown pants, but you may want to get a second opinion before purchasing or leaving your home. Colors I keep in my closet are khaki, shale, brown, gray, and black.
There is a dominating trend in men’s fashion. It revolves around denim jeans worn as business casual. Do yourself a favor, stomp it out altogether. There’s nothing wrong with wearing a nice shirt with a pair of jeans, but don’t confuse it for business casual, it’s just casual. There are better options for causal anyways. For casual wear, I recommend chino pants with any blazer that has a dull finish. It’s very comfortable, with the exception of most winters.
The purpose of these articles are not give you unwavering rules and regulations. The purpose is to keep you on the straight and narrow. Men’s fashion is an ever-changing area, but personally I lean more toward timeless looks which will last my lifetime. If you seek hardcore fashion advice and aren’t afraid of criticism, the gentlemen at Styleforum will generally set you straight.
Let this post serve as an introduction to a new type of content to be featured on DoyleClark.com: Gentlemanly Advice. Through my own personal research and history, I have acquired a lot of knowledge regarding how to be a gentleman in today’s world. It can be hard. It’s not really expected of most men today. Working-class guys don’t think the rules apply to them, and the super rich assume society expects them to be eccentric (crazy). Whether it is conduct or fashion, most people hold themselves to very low standards. Simply put, most men that would be gentleman are a little short on gentlemanly knowledge. I hope that I can fill in some blanks about this subject.
Gentlemanly topics to include:
The right shoes
Wine or Whiskey?
Throwing a party
Hats and caps
If you’re interested in learning what kind of hat fits your face, how to avoid fashion faux pas, or even how to manage yourself when you’re a bachelor versus married, come back soon. I’ll try to keep this category updated very frequently. I will also respond to emails from the Contact page. Questions sent this way will appear on the site. If you do not want your name attached to the question, tell me in your original email.
Leave a comment on this post with any topics or specifics you would like to see in the next few weeks. I can’t promise you’ll see them soon, but I can promise that you will see them.
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